{"id":12028,"date":"2018-11-03T09:37:57","date_gmt":"2018-11-03T09:37:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sandbox.falcontailor.com\/a-gentlemans-advice\/"},"modified":"2026-06-08T11:41:29","modified_gmt":"2026-06-08T11:41:29","slug":"a-gentlemans-advice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/falcontailor.com\/eng\/a-gentlemans-advice\/","title":{"rendered":"Observations from a gentleman"},"content":{"rendered":"

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It sometimes strikes me…<\/h1>\n

By Derreck the Distinguished Rootsman<\/em><\/p>\n

It sometimes strikes me how easy it is to undermine an otherwise excellent impression.<\/p>\n

Not with one dramatic mistake.<\/p>\n

More often, it’s the accumulation of small ones.<\/p>\n

A gentleman may spend considerable time choosing the right suit, shirt and shoes, only to let the details undo all that effort.<\/p>\n

Good style is rarely about perfection.<\/p>\n

But it is very often about paying attention.<\/p>\n

Here are a few things I notice more often than I would like.<\/p>\n

Neglecting your shoes<\/h2>\n

People notice shoes.<\/p>\n

Perhaps not consciously, but they do.<\/p>\n

Well-maintained shoes instantly elevate an outfit. Poorly maintained shoes have the opposite effect.<\/p>\n

Polish them. Care for them. Rotate them.<\/p>\n

Your shoes work harder than most of your wardrobe.<\/p>\n

Treat them accordingly.<\/p>\n

Wearing clothes that don’t fit<\/h2>\n

Too tight.<\/p>\n

Too loose.<\/p>\n

Neither is your friend.<\/p>\n

A well-fitted garment should follow the shape of your body without restricting movement or drowning your frame.<\/p>\n

The difference between expensive and elegant is often simply a matter of fit.<\/p>\n

Too much going on<\/h2>\n

Colour is wonderful.<\/p>\n

Pattern is wonderful.<\/p>\n

Accessories are wonderful.<\/p>\n

But not necessarily all at the same time.<\/p>\n

The most stylish men understand restraint.<\/p>\n

Allow one or two elements to stand out and let the rest support them.<\/p>\n

Ignoring grooming<\/h2>\n

You needn’t look as though you spend hours in front of a mirror.<\/p>\n

But a little effort goes a long way.<\/p>\n

A neat haircut, trimmed nails and a well-maintained beard \u2014 if you choose to have one \u2014 are details that rarely go unnoticed.<\/p>\n

People may not always identify what looks right.<\/p>\n

They usually notice when something doesn’t.<\/p>\n

Wrinkled clothing<\/h2>\n

Some fabrics, such as linen, earn the right to wrinkle.<\/p>\n

Most others do not.<\/p>\n

Take a moment to hang your garments properly and allow them to rest between wears.<\/p>\n

It makes a difference.<\/p>\n

Mismatched details<\/h2>\n

Your belt, shoes, watch strap and accessories need not match perfectly.<\/p>\n

They should, however, look as though they belong in the same conversation.<\/p>\n

Harmony is often more elegant than precision.<\/p>\n

Wearing every trend at once<\/h2>\n

Fashion changes constantly.<\/p>\n

Style evolves more slowly.<\/p>\n

The goal is not to wear everything that is currently fashionable.<\/p>\n

The goal is to wear what suits you.<\/p>\n

There is a difference.<\/p>\n

Overdoing fragrance<\/h2>\n

Fragrance should be discovered, not announced.<\/p>\n

If someone can identify your cologne before shaking your hand, you may have applied too much.<\/p>\n

A subtle fragrance leaves a far stronger impression than an overwhelming one.<\/p>\n

Dressing without purpose<\/h2>\n

Different occasions call for different clothing.<\/p>\n

Not because society demands it.<\/p>\n

Because dressing appropriately shows awareness, confidence and respect.<\/p>\n

A gentleman understands where he is and dresses accordingly.<\/p>\n

Final thoughts<\/h2>\n

The details matter.<\/p>\n

Not because anyone is keeping score.<\/p>\n

But because details reveal care.<\/p>\n

And care is often what separates a well-dressed man from a merely well-dressed outfit.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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